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Pedagoglar g\u00f6steriyor ki yakla\u015f\u0131k \u00a0iki ya\u015f\u0131m\u0131z itibariyle \u00f6zg\u00fcr<\/strong>l\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcze d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcn olmaya ba\u015fl\u0131yoruz. Hatta \u00fc\u00e7 ya\u015f\u0131ndayken bu d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcnl\u00fck on sekiz ya\u015fla k\u0131yasland\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u00e7ok daha bask\u0131n geliyormu\u015f.<\/p>\n On sekiz ya\u015f<\/strong>\u0131nda insan\u0131n \u00fc\u00e7 ya\u015f\u0131na g\u00f6re edindi\u011fini bilgi elbette \u00e7ok daha fazla. Bu sebeple \u00fc\u00e7 ya\u015f\u0131n \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck\u00e7\u00fc davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n a\u011f\u0131r basmas\u0131 bana normal geliyor.<\/p>\n \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc tam da o ya\u015flarda bir k\u0131z\u0131m var. Bir de on sekiz ya\u015f\u0131 ge\u00e7irmi\u015f olan bir b\u00fcnyem…<\/p>\n On sekizimde ne kadar hak<\/strong>lar\u0131m ve \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm konusunda titiz davrand\u0131ysam da bak\u0131yorum ki k\u0131z\u0131m benim on sekiz ya\u015f\u0131mdan \u00e7ok daha cesur ve \u00e7ok daha dikkatli…<\/p>\n “Ben” diyor, gerisi onu hi\u00e7 ilgilendirmiyor.<\/p>\n Bu durum bana bir kimli\u011fi an\u0131msat\u0131yor. Bu denli kendine g\u00fcven, bu denli kendine g\u00f6re d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme bi\u00e7imi; “ben-ci-llik” diye adland\u0131r\u0131lsa da asl\u0131nda kendini ba\u015fkalar\u0131na be\u011fendirme kayg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n olmay\u0131\u015f\u0131<\/strong> olarak bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda farkl\u0131 bir tablo \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za.<\/p>\n Bencil insan ile kendine g\u00fcvenen insan aras\u0131ndaki ince \u00e7izgi, yine \u015fu me\u015fhur VEL\u0130 – DEL\u0130 \u00f6rne\u011fini an\u0131msat\u0131yor.<\/p>\n Aradaki fark nedir?<\/p>\n Bencil insan<\/strong>, \u00e7\u0131karlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zetirken ba\u015fkalar\u0131na verdi\u011fi zarar\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmez. Bu zarar\u0131 g\u00f6rse de g\u00f6rmezlikten gelir.<\/p>\n Kendine g\u00fcvenen insan<\/strong> ise \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcn\u00fc biridir ve kendine zarar verilmesini istemedi\u011fi gibi ba\u015fkalar\u0131na da zarar vermemeye dikkat eder.<\/p>\n \u0130nce \u00e7izgi bu.<\/p>\n Bencil<\/strong> insanlar\u0131n sonu diktat\u00f6rl\u00fckte biter ki halk aras\u0131ndaki kendi \u00e7ap\u0131nda diktat\u00f6rler “zalim<\/strong>” diye tan\u0131mlanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Kendine g\u00fcvenen insanlar i\u00e7in ne yaz\u0131k ki halk\u0131m\u0131z \u00f6zel bir s\u0131fatlama bulmam\u0131\u015f…<\/p>\n Cesur, delikanl\u0131, mert gibi kelimeler asl\u0131nda kendine g\u00fcvenen ki\u015finin niteliklerini tam olarak kar\u015f\u0131lamaz.<\/p>\n Kendine g\u00fcvenen insan\u0131n cesur<\/strong> oldu\u011fu yerler vard\u0131r ancak \u00e7o\u011funlukla sab\u0131rl\u0131<\/strong>d\u0131r.<\/p>\n Delikanl\u0131<\/strong> oldu\u011fu yerler vard\u0131r ancak \u00e7o\u011funlukla sakin<\/strong>dir.<\/p>\n Mert<\/strong> oldu\u011fu yerler hep vard\u0131r ancak \u00e7o\u011funlukla a\u00e7\u0131ks\u00f6zl\u00fc<\/strong>d\u00fcr. Yani d\u00fcr\u00fcst<\/strong>t\u00fcr. \u0130nsanlar aras\u0131nda fitne \u00e7\u0131karan bo\u015f laf konu\u015fan bir ki\u015fi de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n Bencil ki\u015fi ise \u00e7\u0131karlar\u0131 u\u011fruna insanlar\u0131 birbirine d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrmeyi pek sever. \u0130ki ki\u015finin iyi ge\u00e7iniyor olmas\u0131 bencil ki\u015fiye batar. \u0130ster ki herkes birbirini yesin ve o istedi\u011fi gibi s\u0131r\u0131ts\u0131n alttan alttan. \u0130stedi\u011fi gibi at\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrs\u00fcn ovalara, yaylalara…<\/p>\n Ancak bu mutluluk, bencil insan i\u00e7in helal mi<\/strong>dir?<\/p>\n De\u011fildir.<\/p>\n \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc onun o g\u00fcl\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnde y\u00fczlerce, binlerce insan\u0131n g\u00f6zya\u015f\u0131 kan gibi akm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r onun ekme\u011fine…<\/p>\n Bencil insanlar\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 da bu haram lokmadan pay\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131r ne yaz\u0131k ki…<\/p>\n Ve i\u015fte soy dedikleri bu y\u00fczden \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n Haram lokma, bir insan\u0131 de\u011fil bir soyu sopu bile lanetlemeye yeterlidir.<\/p>\n Bir ulusu, bir d\u00fcnyay\u0131… Mahvetmeye ba\u015fl\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131na yeterlidir.<\/p>\n \u00d6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131s\u0131 insanlar\u0131n bencil ki\u015filer taraf\u0131ndan sevilmiyor olmas\u0131 da helal – haram aras\u0131ndaki ezeli kavgayla do\u011frudan ilintilidir.<\/p>\n Elbette ki bu s\u00f6ylediklerime ba\u011fl\u0131 olarak ter\u00f6ristlerin bir \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck sava\u015f\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 anla\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n Yanda\u015flar\u0131 da…<\/p>\n Arkalar\u0131ndaki de…<\/p>\n \u00d6n\u00fcndeki de…<\/p>\n Yedikleri haram lokman\u0131n hesab\u0131n\u0131 hayata \u00f6deyeceklerdir.<\/p>\n \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayat, sanat anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 geli\u015fmi\u015f bir mekanizma<\/strong>d\u0131r.<\/p>\n Ve sanat, denge<\/strong> \u00fczerine kurulu ince bir ya\u015fam bi\u00e7imidir.<\/p>\n G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmek dile\u011fiyle<\/p>\n\n ———- Pedagoglar g\u00f6steriyor ki yakla\u015f\u0131k \u00a0iki ya\u015f\u0131m\u0131z itibariyle \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcze d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcn olmaya ba\u015fl\u0131yoruz. Hatta \u00fc\u00e7 ya\u015f\u0131ndayken bu d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcnl\u00fck on sekiz ya\u015fla k\u0131yasland\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u00e7ok daha bask\u0131n geliyormu\u015f. On sekiz ya\u015f\u0131nda insan\u0131n \u00fc\u00e7 ya\u015f\u0131na g\u00f6re edindi\u011fini bilgi elbette \u00e7ok daha fazla. Bu sebeple \u00fc\u00e7 ya\u015f\u0131n \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck\u00e7\u00fc davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n a\u011f\u0131r basmas\u0131 bana normal geliyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc tam da o ya\u015flarda bir…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":27,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[97,90,94,93,100,88,99,98,91,89,92,87,84,85,86,96,95,25],"class_list":["post-1093","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-kisisel-bloglar","tag-aciksozlu","tag-bencil","tag-cesur","tag-delikanli","tag-denge","tag-hak","tag-hayat","tag-helal","tag-kendine-guven","tag-kendini-begenme","tag-mert","tag-on-sekiz-yas","tag-ozgur","tag-ozgurluk","tag-ozgurlukcu","tag-sabirli","tag-sakin","tag-sanat"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masonlar.org\/hur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1093","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masonlar.org\/hur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masonlar.org\/hur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masonlar.org\/hur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/27"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masonlar.org\/hur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1093"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/masonlar.org\/hur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1093\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1094,"href":"https:\/\/masonlar.org\/hur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1093\/revisions\/1094"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masonlar.org\/hur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1093"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masonlar.org\/hur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1093"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masonlar.org\/hur\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1093"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}